How does one succeed in life?
13.06.2025 02:41

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Do not set goals—set systems.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
How do I develop the patience to read books?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Would you let your partner cheat on you every now and again?
Hangs out with loser friends.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Making more friends is a goal.
Have you ever been forced to dress like a girl?
That's it for today.
Procrastinates a lot.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Does not procrastinate.
Ask yourself:
What do you love to do at night when you’re alone?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Can you list every album you have ever listened to?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
How do I become a Buddhist, and can someone explain Buddhism to me?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Shouldn’t there be a short porn platform like TikTok?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
How did the Nazis figure out whether a person or community is 'Aryan' or not?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Have you ever seen a woman having sex with a dog?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
How do teachers justify punishing a student for fighting back against their bullies?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
What I need from you?
Why is there so much evil in the world?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.